A little-known piece of information about me: I entered my doctoral program with a research interest in Fathering. This interest was born (lol) out of the special relationship that fathers and father figures have in the lives of the children they are a part of. My father is a very special part of my life. Fathering is more than just the biological act of contributing to the creation of a child. It encompasses numerous responsibilities, actions, and emotional connections that shape a child’s development and well-being. Fathers and Father Figures play diverse and essential roles and I think that these roles can be broadly categorized into several key areas:
- Role Model: Fathers and Father Figures serve as role models. They demonstrate behaviors, values, and ethics that shape their children’s character. Through their actions, fathers teach lessons about responsibility, respect, and integrity.
- Emotional Supporter: Emotional availability and support from a father are crucial for a child’s mental health. A father’s encouragement and affection help build a child’s self-esteem and emotional resilience.
- Guide and Mentor: Fathers often guide their children through life’s challenges, offering advice and wisdom. This mentorship helps children navigate complex situations and make informed decisions.
Did you know that the presence of a father or father figure can significantly influence a child’s development?
Research consistently shows that children with involved fathers fare better in numerous aspects of life, including academic performance, social skills, and psychological health.
So, on this Father’s Day, let’s celebrate that Fathering is a complex and vital aspect of parenting that significantly shapes a child’s future. Let’s acknowledge the fathers who actively engage in their children’s lives and provide an indispensable foundation of support, security, and guidance for their children. The importance of father figures cannot be overstated, as their influence extends far beyond childhood, impacting individuals’ lives well into adulthood. As society evolves, I hope we can recognize and support the role of fathers and fathering in child-rearing. Doing so will be crucial for fostering well-rounded, resilient, and successful future generations.
Here is a small celebration from me: I am so lucky to have my father! He is very involved in my life and the lives of my children. I am also lucky to have a brother and brother-in-law who are present and involved role models to my boys. Thank you for being good men!
Happy Father’s Day!
xoxo,
Dr. Marnee