Hello, My Fabulous Parents,
I love this time of year. The weather is beautiful- the days are getting longer. This week, we celebrated Tu Bishvat to honor the trees and the Hallmark holiday of Valentine’s Day.
So, why am I mentioning these two seemingly unrelated holidays? Stay with me- I believe that parenting is a lot like planting a tree. In the beginning, we carefully place a tiny seedling in the soil, full of hope for what it will become. We nurture it, give it sunlight, and water it with love. We protect it from storms, pests, and anything that might weaken its roots. But no matter how much we prepare, the tree will grow in its own unique way.
Some seasons are easier than others. There are moments when growth seems effortless—branches stretch high and leaves flourish. Other times, the tree struggles, battered by wind and weather, growing in directions we didn’t expect. As parents, it’s tempting to try and control every aspect of our child’s growth, but just like trees, children need space to find their strength. And we remind ourselves that what doesn’t bend breaks.
Our job isn’t to shape them into something they’re not but to provide the nourishment, guidance, and stability they need to grow into who they’re meant to be. Sometimes, that means stepping back and trusting their roots.
So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, remind yourself that you’re doing a great job planting, watering, and providing the right environment for your tree or forest to thrive.
With patience, love, and trust, your child will find their way.
xoxo,
Master Planter
— feeling lovely.